6 Things You Should Never Ignore in Your Relationship

Being in a relationship is not supposed to be a frustrating experience, it's supposed to be filled with Love, happiness and friendship.

 A loving relationship is never scary or dominated by one person. A partnership doesn't need a boss.

If you are in a relationship that shows any of the following warning signs, you should get out before it escalates to something much worse:

1. Bullying: 

Some men will make many threats to get others to do what they want. It is often seen early in the relationship. A man who bully's others will eventually turn the bullying toward you. They use fear and manipulation to get what they want. When you are the woman in their life, you will most certainly become the target of their anger and blame. Everything that goes wrong in their life will come flying back at you. They might threaten you with harm if you try to leave them. If you are in this condition, hmm.. you have to realize that you risk more harm by staying. 

2. Jealousy or possessiveness: 

Relationships are built on trust, not control.

I know that when you are in love, you might feel a slight sting of jealousy when you see your partner talking to an opposite sex. But it is completely unreasonable to expect someone to avoid all contact with members of the opposite sex. 

3. Seclusion from family and friends: 

Ive seen some men who keep their woman under their watchful eye to maintain total control. He aims to break down her support system because if she is totally dependent on him, it will be harder for her to leave. He doesn't want her to be influenced by family and friends who might try to convince her to leave.. If you are in this category, I advise you to stop.. Don't try to restrict the woman from spending time with anyone other than you. Don't ever try to brainwash your woman into believing that her friends are jealous of the love you both share or that her family is trying to sabotage your relationship so they can control her.

4. Accusations of unfaithfulness:

 You really need to have a serious discussion if you truly suspect cheating in a relationship. It's not good accuse your partner of having an affair, or attempting to. If you avoid small talk and eye contact with every man you see for fear of anger in your guy, then you should  check your guy as soon as possible, before things get out of hand.

5. Controlling your life: 

An abusive man tries to tell you where you can go, who you can talk to, how much you can spend, what you can wear, etc. If you are in this situation, remind yourself that you don't need another parent. Realize that you are your own person, and you are capable of making your own decisions without supervision. You should never feel like you are a prisoner in your own home, or relationship.

6. Criticism:

 If your man calls you names or puts you down, he is being disrespectful, If he criticizes everything you do, realize that it is not an issue with your performance. You will never satisfy his list of demands. No matter what you do or how you do it, he will always find a problem. He does this to control you. The problem is not with your behavior, it is with his.

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