1. Always have confidence, even if you are shy. Be proud of who you are!
2. Always feel cute! Having excellent hygiene will help you achieve that feeling. Brush your teeth, take a shower every day, etc.
3. Be yourself when speaking with your crush. Your crush will not like you if you pretend to be someone you're not. Don't be ashamed of who you are - don't try to hide yourself!
4. If you are passing in the hallways, just try to get the courage to greet them and smile cheerfully. There is nothing more powerful than a genuine, acknowledging smile. Eye contact is also very important in this step.
If you have a crush on a girl, compliment her outfit or compliment her on things she does in class as well, or something you know she did like an event or win an award.
This is also applicable to guys. Things like this will boost their ego and make them feel great about themselves.
5. Talk about interesting things.. If you expand your knowledge to a variety of topics, you'll have lots to talk about with your crush!
If you don't know any interesting topic, you can read some blogs or check the news. Read magazines, books, watch TV, have adventures, listen to different music, and watch different movies.
6. Don't ever lie to your crush. Be truthful. Do not lie. If you lie to the person you like, they will find out eventually and never respect you for it.
7. Don't ever give your crush mean looks or anything to draw attention unless he/she knows you're joking with them. When you do tease or joke with them, make sure it's obvious and that you don't really mean it. Too much teasing may lead to hurt feelings and a sour relationship oh! so, keep your teasing to a minimum..tease them only about things you know that they won't mind.
8. Stay away from bad habits. If you have any bad habits while talking to your crush, you'll be at a downside. Try to be yourself, but avoid cursing excessively. Keep your conversations innocent, clean, but entertaining in a positive way.
9. When you are ready to talk to your crush, try to dress in a way that will boost your confidence and make you feel comfortable. It will make things a whole lot easier on you.
TIP: Try wearing an outfit that your crush once complimented
10. Now that you've talked to your crush for sometime, finally come out with saying you like him/her, but don't say the exact line! Your line should be something like a hint, but big and clear enough that your crush will get the point and understand. Come up with something original:
Please don't use "um" and "ah" too much. It will make your crush think that you're too shy!
When confessing your crush on them, let them know about it with confidence. Everyone likes someone with confidence - the more confidence, the better.
And.. Don't be too confident!
Don't sound like you have practiced the line. One to three "um" or "ah" will make it sound more natural - stick them in appropriate places!
Have eye contact when you're telling your crush you like him/her. It will make you appear more confident and it makes you look bold!
Finally, If your crush likes you back, then ask him/her out! However, if your crush doesn't feel the same about you, it's Okay. There are plenty of people out there!
The right person is out there, waiting for you to come around the corner. Move on!
WARNING!
-Do not leave it too long! If you do, some other guy might get her before you do, that is an awful feeling.
-Having your friends talk to him/her for you can be awkward for the guy/lady; it is best to just talk with him/her yourself.
-Do not be rude if your crush doesn't like you back. It isn't fair to them that you are giving them mean looks and are rude to them just because they are not interested in you.
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