Am 26yrs,I have a guy which I have being dating for 3years,but I don't have any feelings for him. he buys me different kinds of gift and; also spend a lot of money on me. last year he said we should start preparing for our marriage but I disagreed. I lied to him that when I finish my school we're going to get married because I don't have feeling for him I try my possible best but its still the same thing. Have met the person I really love but he's a married man he said he want to impregnate me and make me his second wife I don't know
what to do I luv him so much, I don't want to loose him...pls I need advice and I dont know wat to do. my parents want me to get married quickly and the guys
I do meet are all married men.
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Think b4 you get involve with a married man. And are u really in love with this man or are u infatuated to him? Ask yourself that question. Don't rush in or you'll eventually rush out and u might not be able to come out alone. And definitely a married man that want a second wife might still want a third and fourth.......
Love is a process and men are of sizes. if you are in love with a married man good for you but if u ask for my opinion i will tell u that its never the best to be a second wife and u should note that, u are never his bus-stop meaning 3rd,4th, 5th and so on wot ever he use, say, show to get u he will equally use it to get more after he got wot he want.
However do u know that Love grows? its just a matter of Time u will Love him like never before. Honestly, i have a lot to tell you but time will not permit me. But i will leave u with this:
ALWAYS HAVE REASONS WHY U SHOULD LOVE HIM (THE UNMARRIED GUY) from all indications he love u.
He wants to impregnate you and marry you, my dear run for your life. You are 26 and have your whole life ahead of you. Don't spoil it by limiting yourself to marry a married man. Why do you want to be second best, when you can be number one. There are a million men out there, don't limit yourself. You would definitely find one who loves you and who you would love in return. Just look within you and define what type of man you really want to spend the rest of your life with and be realistic about it. Present it to God and you would be surprise at what you get. I married at 35 and am glad i waited because God truly gave me the best when i asked to see through his eyes and not mine.
Take your time and think thoroughly what kind of life you will be leading as second best. Are you psychologically prepared to share this man? Are you ready to spend some lonely nights when he has gone to be with his first wife? Do you love him enough to be contented with his partial attention? since his attention will be needed somewhere else? Its never the best of decision to be a second wife, I talk this out of experience!!! be warned gal!!! Run for your dear life, Life as a second one is life geared for unending competition and battles.
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